It is certainly possible to communicate without words. Body language, eye contact, or even tone of voice all communicate a lot more than the things that are being said.
Learning how to pick up on non-verbal cues is very valuable for getting along with people and getting what you want in day to day life.
But as a communicator, there can never be any expectation that someone is “hearing” what you aren’t saying.
If someone asks you directly about something, and you agree, but do so with a tone of voice that implies you aren’t happy about it, it not the other person’s responsibility for taking you up on the offer.
Convincing yourself that you are a victim after the fact because your passive non-verbal communication wasn’t picked up will lead you to a life of bitterness and shallow and unfulfilling relationships.
Say what you want. Say what you don’t want. Don’t expect others to read your non-verbal communication.
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